I have also found that they are not asking because it is a values or morals question but because of health concerns.
Yet, when their partner answers the question it suddenly turns into a values or morals questions because that is exactly what it is.
Men and women who are concerned with catching a sexually transmitted disease from their partner should practice safe sex until they both have taken an STD test to make sure they are clean.
Even if your partner says they have only slept with one or two people there is no way of knowing how may people those one or two other people slept with or if those other people were even clean and that is assuming your partner is even telling you the truth.
Also, even if a person has slept with 10,000 people, there is no guarantee that they will or will not have anything.
STD's can infect anyone who is having sex even if they only had sex with one person.
So the next time you find yourself wanting to know how many people your partner or perspective partner has slept with because of "health concerns" don't; instead look into going to the Clinic and having both of you tested because that's the only way you are going to know for sure.
If you find that to be too much to ask just practice safe sex using a condom as that will be the safest thing to
posted by Croat @ 3:16 PM
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